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Yet, to us it is a revelation; hence, it seems new to today’s world. If you are brave enough to look inside, you might notice that on some level you already know this. Of course, everything is relative. I’m just happy to see this conversation beginning to make its way onto public platforms.
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We need courageous, enlightened,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], inspired leaders who can turn on their own inner authentic light so they can:
The good news is, now that our environment has shifted so far so fast, we are being shaken out of our caves! The earth is rumbling under our feet metaphorically, and if we don’t run out of the cave we may just be crushed by it. In order to be the type of “in the light” inspirational leader that is needed in today’s world, one will need to leave the cave and inspire others to do the same.
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* See the light in others
* See new possibilities for innovation
* Let their light, and hence their Life, shine!
Leading with the “Brain in Mind” can help support this process when you experientially know how to integrate the science — and I’m not simply giving a neuroanatomy lecture here. When we care more about people than just crunching numbers, ironically we will likely have bigger numbers to crunch! This is a part of the paradox we need to learn and apply.
Leadership and vision are things I’ve been dealing with all of my life on different levels: from student government and asking questions that irritated those around me and questioned the status quo, to literally growing up and becoming an entrepreneur and eye surgeon before selling my practice. Vision and leadership are themes in my life in a very personal and experiential way.
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2011 Annual Inspection of law enforcement, the relevant departments have found Fuyang City Construction Investment Group Limited company without the approval of the illegal occupation of Fuyang Fuchun street Jinqiao community, Yu Shan Xiang Da Ge Cun (non arable land of 46155 square meters) build the park road engineering.
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Because adults have more control of their lives and better understanding and comprehension of traumatic events than children, they are better equipped to come to terms with traumatic experiences from long ago. This enables them to "step in, learn, and step out." When we forgive those who hurt us in pursuit of closure, we can more effectively move toward creating the life we deserve and of which we are worthy.
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The pursuit of a supportive network alongside proper nutrition and physical exercise is often critical in treating chronic obesity. It is essential that a person with a traumatic childhood pay close attention to and examine those experiences within this support network, and psychotherapy techniques like clinical hypnosis and age regression can be particularly effective in uncovering repressed childhood memories.
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…Love is that expansive potential that can pull in other expansive elements from around the universe. Your world is naturally plentiful and diverse. It’s too bad that so many believe there is a shortage of resources thereby seeming to forever cling to the material items they possess-especially those items that no longer serve them.
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It is like the ‘wind and sun’ fable. The more the ‘winds of change’ blow, the more fiercely these individuals may cling to their possessions. The more they cling to their possessions (quite fearful of change), the more the ‘wind’ can be attracted to them, perhaps setting them off balance. Yet,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], if they loosened their grip just a bit, a natural flow of energy could begin.
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Tip# 9: “Can I be honest with you?” is a great compliment to hear...
I have people constantly ask me, “Charlie can I be honest with you?” I sometimes say, “Well, of course … but what you have been until this point in time – dishonest?” What they are saying is one of several things:
o If I share this with you, will you keep in confidential?
o If I share this with you, will you also give me YOUR HONEST opinion (be careful)?
o This goes “against the grain” of what others are commonly thinking or saying, so here’s how I really stand on this issue or question…
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Remember when you mother or father would say something that you shouldn’t do, and then do it themselves? A lack of congruence – a match between what you say and DO – is critically important to building and maintaining trust. Consistency breeds trust. Be very slow and careful about what you promise. Under-promise and you’ll over-deliver and build trust. “I’d rather SEE a sermon than hear one any day.”
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Tip# 2: Become more competent every day.
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The research on the topic of trust is clear -- it is a by-product of three primary attributes or characteristics of behavior:
o “I believe that you’ll do what you say you’ll do.”
o Competence
o A sense of benevolence
If you say, “fine, Charlie” I know and follow this one already,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], then consider this: I graduated from West Point, the US Military Academy and served in the US Army. West Point’s Honor Code reads, “I will not lie, cheat or steal NOR tolerate those who do.” So, let’s say you observe your work buddy lifting a few boxes of CD disks from the office supply room – do you turn your back, or question him (and/or report him?) It’s about doing the “harder right than the easier wrong.” If you don’t stand for something, you’ll fall for everything.
Tip# 5: Be transparent – be authentic and genuine, with no ‘masks.’
Like it or not, we all tend to wear a sort-of “mask” or façade, depending on the situation and people we find ourselves. In my experience, those people who are most transparent about their true intent tend to be trusted the most. They don’t play games; they don’t behave differently in one situation or another. They are also open to being vulnerable, sharing their emotions, deepest thoughts or important life wisdom.
I truly believe that God’s laws – the 10 Commandments if you’re Christian, the Quran if you’re Muslim – are like “honey to the lips!” Why? The next time you’re driving down a 2-lane highway, realize that you’re passing the approaching vehicle with no more than 7-8 feet between you. If no one followed the simple traffic laws, you’d be an auto fatality long ago. Folks, if you think you’re somehow special or unique – SEPARATE – from everyone else, then you won’t choose to follow simple rules handed down thousands of years ago, and won’t be trusted. For more on this topic, go to [link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
When you ask a child to do something, often they ask the simple question, “Why?” Adults are no different (we’re all just grown-up kids) and they want to understand the reasons ‘why’ it should be done, or why in that manner. Don’t forget this simple rule: in email for example, your INTENT can be misunderstood. So,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], state your intent at the beginning or the end of the email (or verbal message) so that intent is never misunderstood.
Probably the best, recent example of a benevolent company leader is the true story of a Massachusetts company whose manufacturing building burned to the ground, and whose owner continued payrolls until the plant was re-constructed. Loyalty breeds trust.
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You can feel a sense of benevolence in many ways, some of which include:
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o They ensure that in any conflict, you’ll feel as if you came out better than they did, even if they had to lose something in order to reach a consensus.
o They under-promise and over-deliver – consistently, and never the other way around.
o They have a “servant attitude” – it is clear that they are there to serve others, and if you needed someone at a crucial time, you could count on them. They consistently give of themselves and their talents.
The point hear is that people want to be honest with one another, but constantly are concerned about office politics, being politically correct and other generally unjustifiable concerns. If you’re the type of person who commonly has people say to you, “Can I be honest with you?” it’s a good sign that you’re on the right path to being more trustworthy.
Tip# 7: Create light by over-communicating.
True trust-building leaders communicate often and well so that people feel “in on things.” Don’t you like to feel like you’re “IN on things,” and rarely feel as if you’ve been left in the dark? Think of leaders that you’ve enjoyed working with in the past – didn’t they ‘over-communicate,’ constantly worked to make sure you felt in the loop, had seldom surprises because they saw communication as light in a dark room.
Tip# 1: Build a reputation for benevolence, or doing something kind, helpful or useful for someone else.
Practice doing something for someone else everyday for no apparent (ulterior motive) reason, and watch your trust build – it could be as simple as a handwritten thank you note. Ever see the movie, “Pay It Forward?” If not, go rent it and watch it for a good example of this tip and principle.
Procrastination kills countless great ideas. The achievers of this world treat ‘mistakes’ NOT as failures, but as learning lessons. Like Mike Litman also says, “Don’t get it perfectly right, just get it going!” Be willing to trust your gut, guys - or your intuition, ladies more than you do today.
Tip# 10: When all else fails, remember that a thought of FEAR and a thought of FAITH or Courage cannot exist in the mind at the same time.
Tip# 3: Remember that a Decision sets you free!
I learned from my friend, Matt Bacak (www.promotingtips.com) that the word, decision comes from the Latin root word meaning, “to cut.” In other words, a decision “frees you” to either carry out the decision and move forward,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or leave it behind and move forward.
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This is a HUGE problem in the world today. I have someone at least once a week tell me a story of how they can’t find honorable, trustworthy employees to hire. We live in a morally corrupt world. You may not agree with me, but in my and others' opinions, there is a war going on between good and evil. You want greater trust with people? Great, then if you violate a sense of ethics or morality, your boat is sunk. You have to be trusted at your word, period.
What’s this have to do with trust? Mike Litman (www.mikelitman.com) says that more is lost in indecision, than in making the wrong decision. You have to trust yourself, once you’ve done the research, to make a decision. Like Nike says, “Just Do It.”
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Now, if Gene ever needs a “favor” from me, he has it – yes? Although he didn’t do it for this reason, by selflessly giving to others, you sort of create an invisible ‘bank account’ – if you never give of yourself or your time or money, don’t expect much of the same in return.
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This manager built walls with the doors to communication and idea-generation slammed shut. A leader must build a safe house for ideas and growth. Offering an opinion or idea should get positive recognition. Managers who play the “bait and switch” game destroy employee morale. They lead employees to believe the environment is safe - “I want to hear your ideas.” But as soon as an idea is offered, the idea and its creator are attacked. The true leader never plays the “bait and switch” game. When ideas are sought, every employee is encouraged to participate. Creative thought must never bring criticism. Managers who don’t understand this will not hear any bright ideas from their employees because there is no safe room. Employees will quickly learn to keep their heads down and offer no new ideas. When this happens the whole company suffers. The employees are put in a no-win situation. The “bait and switch” game is worse than not asking for ideas and opinions in the first place. Employees can complain that no one asks for their input,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but at least they are not tricked into believing their ideas might matter.
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Sometime when I was a teenager someone told me that acne was an adolescent curse that would end when I got older. Clearly this person was lying. Although it got better, I continued to have pimples occasionally and was still having them at the age of 48 when I was first diagnosed with lymphoma. After treatment? Zero, zip, zilch, nada. Coincidence? Possibly, but when you’re looking for good things about cancer, you’ll take whatever you can get. I’d like to report that it did wonders in regard to wrinkles as well,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but no such luck.
Labeled “the bad girl of bungalow writing” – she’s authored six books on home restoration, including Bungalow Kitchens - I also consider her “the bad girl of cancer warriors.” You’ll see why below.
I still have lymphoma - I relapsed into a chronic form of the disease two years ago. Now I’m grateful for Rituxan- the monoclonal antibody that is keeping the disease under control while not making my hair fall out again.
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This post originally appeared in Lori's CarePages blog, Hope for Cancer: what helps. what hurts. what heals.
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Chemo makes your hair fall out. I hated being bald. I worried about what would happen when treatment was over and my hair grew back, having heard that hair was often different when it re-grew. Sometimes it was a different color. Having been a redhead all my life, I began to realize just how profoundly I was invested in having red hair, to the point that I saved the hair that fell out, so I would know what color I needed if I was going to have to start dyeing it. Luckily, it came back red. But here is the cool part: no gray. It’s been eight years since I finished chemo,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I’m about to turn 57, and still no gray. We cancer survivors sometimes joke that treatment takes ten years off your life, and it may, but at least our hair doesn’t look it!
Those of you who’ve read Help Me Live… likely recall Monica, the now-9 year survivor of non-Hodgkins lymphoma whose cousin told her to visualize green leafy vegetables and even offered to make her a chard milkshake. Monica’s real name is Jane Powell (I used pseudonyms for all my interview subjects), and we’ve stayed in touch over the years.
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Perhaps this should have been number one. I will never again be depressed on my birthday. I am grateful for the most mundane things- a favorite song on the radio, a warm day in January. And I no longer have to view the outside world as a minefield. Chemo suppresses your immune system, which leads to endless internal debates every time you venture out. “How many sick people are at the pharmacy?” Now I’d almost be happy to go and stand in line at the DMV. Almost.
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Studies have been undertaken that show there actually IS such a thing as chemo-brain. One of the things that’s affected is your ability to remember words. For a writer, this is a problem. I once spent 45 minutes staring at the computer screen trying to think of the word “euphemism.” I couldn’t even think of a euphemism for “euphemism.” Another thing that’s affected is spatial perception, which I use as an excuse for why I’m so bad at parallel parking.
In 2000, I was diagnosed with Stage IV non-Hodgkins lymphoma. I survived. But all those who think this is going to be some cancer-is-a-gift-you-can-use-it-to-transform-your-life article can stop reading right now. Cancer sucks,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and this is merely an attempt to look for the almost non-existent silver lining in the whole thing. After treatment and remission, I was horrified to discover that I had gained perspective and actually felt gratitude,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but I’ve come to accept it. So herewith, five things for which I am grateful.
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When I perform the Airport Story, it takes about ten minutes. I act out the critical turning point moments and react in real-time in front of my audience, just like I did when it really happened. My audiences don’t just watch and listen, they feel and participate. Because I add details and nuance to the story, my audience members tell me that they were there in the story: at the departure board in Chicago, in the back of the plane, at the luggage carousel. They see and feel themselves inside the story as I’m telling it.
• I then act out my panic at the baggage claim as I alternate between checking my watch, watching for my luggage to appear, and looking out the window for taxicabs or the shuttle. Can you relate? Experience #7.
I was in the last row of the airplane, with 15 minutes to get my luggage and catch the last shuttle bus that would get me to the hotel on time. I was frantic with anxiety as I waited for my luggage and watched for the shuttle bus. With one-minute to spare I grabbed my luggage and hustled out to the curb, just as the blue Super Shuttle bus drove right past me without stopping. I missed my ride.
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Here is some of the emotion, imagery, texture and context that create the Story Theater experience of my Airport Story:
While a summary serves a strategic purpose,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], far too many storytellers strip their story down to the basics with noble intentions. They think that by stripping it down and getting to the point quicker, they are doing their audience a favor. The story is shorter and therefore there is more time for delivery of content.
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• A simple but important moment occurs when I arrive in Chicago and walk off the plane into Concourse B. I act out checking the departure board for my connecting flight. “Des Moines, Jacksonville, Kansas City…delayed!!!” I react in frustration just as I did at the moment it occurred. I don’t narrate it to the audience. I perform it as an IN moment. The audience members experience themselves in O’Hare at the departure board. Experience #3.
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The abbreviated version of my Airport Story takes about two minutes to tell. In interviews and coaching calls with many of my Story Theater students, that’s the typical length of their stories. Over half of my students have never told a story longer than two or three minutes, before working with me.
If you’ve ever read a good book from beginning to end, savoring every delicious chapter and plot twist, you wouldn’t be at all satisfied with the Cliffs Notes version. The Cliffs Notes version just doesn’t cut it. For one thing, the summary edits out important details. It strips the story down to the basics and in so doing, removes all of the texture, nuance, character development and emotion.
When I got to Chicago, I looked at the departure board and saw the word “delayed.” The next leg to Kansas City was delayed one hour. Instead of arriving in K.C. at 2:30, I’d get there at 3:30, which still left me with two hours to spare.
We all learn best from personal experience. When we have an experience, every moment, every detail, every decision or indecision is important. If we strip anything out, it is not as powerful. Every choice, reaction, expression and nuance is essential to understanding the meaning of the experience. When you present a story crafted and delivered with the Story Theater Method,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you are creating an experience for your listeners.
• The next scene that I choose to perform is in the Red Carpet Club. I act out going to the counter where they put out vegetables and crackers and cookies. I then check the departure board in the Red Carpet Club and see that the flight is delayed for a second time. I react in frustration again. It is now becoming obvious that deciding to fly in the same day was a stupid choice. This is not spoken; it is experienced subliminally. Everybody knows what this feels like. Experience #4.
In the summary version of a story, many of the human moments are removed. What is left is the sequence and the crucial facts. There is just enough there to make the point. And to a certain extent it could work that way. The question is not whether it works in the moment however, the question is, how long does the learning last?
When I was in high school, in the sixties, a company called Cliffs Notes (aka Cliff Notes) published book summaries. (Remember the yellow and black striped covers?) These little books enabled you to read passages from the book in a summarized form so you wouldn’t have to read the whole book. We used them as study guides for books like Moby Dick.
I decided to go to the Red Carpet Club and relax. The next time I checked the departure board my flight was delayed again. By the time my flight from Chicago to Kansas City was pulling up to the gate it was 4:45 pm. I had been told that there usually weren’t any taxicabs at the airport, and I should catch the blue Super Shuttle bus, which ran every 30 minutes.
• Having explained that my meeting planner was going to pick me up at 5:30 pm, I go on to explain that “the audience members would arrive around 6:15 for an open bar reception, followed by a pasta dinner from 6:30 to 7:30. At that point there would be an awards banquet and at 8 pm I would go on.” Freeze. I simply freeze in place with a look on my face that says, “You’ve got to be kidding me. I’m supposed to motivate an audience that’s been eating, drinking and celebrating for two hours? At 8 pm?” I don’t speak; I react. And because I don’t speak, everyone in the room gets to have the same reaction that I had. Experience #1.
I believe it is our job as speakers, trainers, leaders and motivators to create meaning. We don’t speak merely to make a point; we speak to influence people’s lives for the better. Creating meaning is not easy, especially when people are distracted with the “overwhelm” in their lives. They have text messages, emails and business to attend to. They have personal issues to think about. Their brains are full of activity. How do we capture their attention and draw them away from their distractions and into a space where we can create meaning?
• And finally, I run out to the curb only to watch the shuttle bus pass me by (and there are no taxi cabs in sight). I react in frustration and then shift from frustration,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], to resignation, to seeking a solution. I act out the conversation with the limo driver. Experience #8.
By acting out so many critical moments in the story, it becomes a movie and I become an actor in that movie. What’s really fascinating is how my audience members seem to be drawn into my movie the same way they are drawn into a big budget movie in the theater. Their brains don’t make a differentiation because once their imagination is activated, they’re in.
Without having anything to compare it to, you might think that version is fine. But fine is not enough for me, or my students. We’re reaching for “amazing”. We want to engage our audiences and inspire them to change their lives! Simply telling the Cliffs Notes version of what happened won’t do that.
Consider this: I’ve told my Airport Story over 200 times. Because I use it as a tutorial, my audience members tell me where they are most engaged. All of those moments would be lost if I simply delivered the short summary version of the story.
The Ten-Minute Version
Spaghetti without the Sauce
When we strip a story down to its basic elements, we leave out the very things we love about going to the movies: the imagery, emotion and context that give meaning to the story. In the summary version above, you have enough information to know what happened, but it doesn’t draw you in. Movies draw you in. They make you forget about yourself for a while and they take you someplace else – a place where you get to laugh and cry and feel.
A summary version of a story may make you think, but you don’t really participate; you don’t get drawn in. You relate to the story on an intellectual level, but you don’t feel like you were there.
• The narrative carries the story forward to the point where I am sitting on the plane, which has now landed on the ground in Kansas City. The plane is pulling up to the gate. I act out looking at my watch and reacting in shock to the time, 4:45 pm. In “self-talk” I say, “What did she tell me to do when I arrive? If there aren’t any taxicabs, catch the blue Super Shuttle bus. They run every half-hour on the hour. It’s 4:45. She’s picking me up at 5:30.” I look out at the audience with sarcasm in my voice and say, “You do the math. I am sitting in my seat…” Then I proceed in silence to start backing down the aisle to the rear of the plane while keeping my eyes on the audience. When I reach the back of the plane I make two side steps to the side as if sliding over to the window seat. Only after I am in the window seat position do I say with extreme disbelief, “Window seat.” The audience knows from my pantomime that I am in the window seat and often says, “Window seat” out loud with me. Experience #5.
Two Minutes
• I go on to act out waiting impatiently at the back of the plane for the aisle to clear so I can get off the plane. Can you relate? Experience #6.
The next time you tell your story, consider making a profound shift in how you approach what goes in and what you cut out. Instead of crafting your story based on what you want your listener to know, consider crafting it based on what you want them to feel.
Why not use the medium that they choose to use for their own pleasure and relief? Movies! When I’m exhausted at the end of the day and I just want to relax, I like to watch a movie. No matter how tired I am,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I can watch and enjoy a movie. How about you?
The Cliffs Notes version:
What Was Missing?
Even though I usually do not fly in the day of a booking, this time I asked my travel agent to book me on a flight,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], that day. The routing was through Chicago O’Hare Airport, and I’d arrive in Kansas City at 2:30 pm.
Fill In The Gaps
When you fill in the gaps between what you want them to know with how you want them to feel, you will create an experience filled with meaning that will last a lifetime.
With one minute to spare, I arrived at the hotel and met the meeting planner. My Positive Power of Change keynote had a special meaning for me that evening because I had indeed found the positive power of change.
In my opinion, there is a flaw in this argument. While some people who listen to your story are impatient and just want you to get to the point,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the vast majority look forward to the visual and emotional journey of a good story. And more importantly, when stories are properly developed to include content elements, they are content.
Create Meaning
It’s All About the Experience
• I perform the whole phone call with my travel agent. The technique I use is to speak only my words, my side of the conversation,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and to listen to her responses and react. After she tells me that I can arrive at 2:30 pm with a backup if needed,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I ask her, “and what’s the routing”, and after giving her a moment to “speak”, I say “through Chicago O’Hare.” The audience groans because Chicago is notorious for delays. Because I know that I would be taking a risk by flying in the same day,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I ask Carole to hold on a minute while I decide what to do. I turn slightly to the left side, hold the phone to my chest so she can’t hear me talking to myself, and I say, “Don’t do this Douglas, don’t do this.” (The audience is tense.) Then with a burst of positive enthusiasm I turn to the right,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], lift the phone to my mouth and say, “Okay, let’s do this.” The audience laughs because they’ve been there and done that. Experience #2.
In other words, they are drawn in. They forget about their current state of affairs and go with me into my story.
I call that engagement. I call that Story Theater. And what I’ve learned over the years, performing stories using this method, is that if I perform my story brilliantly, my audience members experience their story simultaneously. It is their story that is important. When my story activates their story, they experience a deeper level of learning that transcends the intellectual. Rather than just getting the point, they understand its meaning in a personal way. When I started teaching Story Theater in 1996, I didn’t understand this fully, but I knew that Story Theater made stories work at a deeper level.
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